QTIP – Quit Taking It Personally

I love this advice. QTIP – Quit Taking It Personally. It’s catchy, easy to remember, and such important advice to remember. Sometimes we get wrapped around the axle when we take something personally that isn’t meant for us. I received a reminder of this advice last week during a ‘discussion’ with someone I have known…

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Becoming a Catalyst

A year ago while visiting my friend Ellen in Maine we were having a very long and thoughtful discussion while driving – one of many during our visit. We always say we should just hit the record button and turn our discussions into a podcast (which we’ve already named, “What will the neighbors think?” This…

Do You Know Your Value?

“Who are you?” asked Bill Campbell, Intuit’s CEO at the time I was sitting in his office discussing business schools. I fumbled around for an answer, meandering all over the place, feeling not at all sure I had answered his question. Next he asked, “Who is Sonya Sigler?” Yeah, this question just confirmed that I…

Could Your Boss’ Boss Describe What You Do?

Have you seen a colleague get promoted over you and wondered why? Or thought to yourself, ‘What are they doing that I’m not?’ The truth of the matter is that they know how to self-promote. I know, we’ve all been given messages that self-promotion is bad, or it feels icky and profoundly uncomfortable. That means…